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How to Successfully Date with an Avoidant Attachment Style

 

In the last two Single Over 30 podcast episodes, I’ve been sharing about attachment styles. Last week I discussed how to successfully date with an Anxious attachment style.

This week, I’m talking about how to successfully date with an Avoidant attachment style. If you are pretty sure you don’t have an Avoidant attachment style, this episode is still for you.

Maybe you will meet a man who has this style and you will want to know how he operates in a romantic relationship. And, if you do have the style, this episode will be especially helpful.

I hope you are encouraged! To find out if you are a good candidate to work with me for one-on-one coaching, click here and set up a free, no-obligation, 30-minute Breakthrough Session with me.

I look forward to talking with you soon!

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How to Successfully Date with an Anxious Attachment Style

 

Dating when you feel anxious can feel very painful and difficult. You may feel confident and easy-going in other areas of life, but when it comes to dating you may panic. If you struggle with an anxious attachment style, in this episode, I share practical strategies you can put into place to help you deal with your anxious attachment style. You can feel more confident! I hope you are encouraged! To find out if one-on-one coaching is a good fit for you, click here to set up a free, 30-minute Breakthrough Session with me.

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What's Your Attachment Style? Find Out.

 

Have you ever been in a relationship or been interested in a man and you feel like you aren't yourself? Maybe you feel completely confident in every other area of your life but when it comes to love, you feel panicky. Or, maybe you are excited about a relationship, but when things start to get more serious, that you pull away. Maybe you're uncomfortable with words or actions of affection.

It could be that your attachment style is playing into your love life more than you realize.

In this episode of the Single Over 30 podcast, I share an overview of attachment styles so that you can understand more about why you are doing what you do when it comes to love. If you'd like to talk with me about working one-on-one with you in a transformative coaching relationship, visit the homepage and click on the coaching tab at the top of the page. 

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4 Questions Women Ask About Men (and the answers from my hubby)

 Every woman I have ever coached has had questions about men. And why wouldn't this be true? Men can often seem difficult to understand. (Ever heard of that book, "Men Are From Mars. Women Are From Venus?")

Good news! In this episode, my husband and I demystify men and answer the top 4 questions I receive about the opposite sex. These answers about how guys will help you navigate the dating process with greater clarity and give you more confidence, too!

Enjoy! If you'd like to learn more about the Single Over 30 Relationship School, or how to apply to coach with me one-on-one, visit shanaschuttecoaching.com. 
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4 Commitment Fears (and what to do about them)

 

If you want to find a trustworthy, marriage-minded man and get married, you may also have some opposing fears that push against your desire to tie the knot. Maybe you're afraid of choosing the wrong guy; maybe you're afraid of being smothered, losing your independence, or that marriage will just be too hard or difficult.

If you "get" these commitment fears, then this episode is definitely for you. And, (yay!) my husband, Clark, joins me for this episode to give some wise nuggets from the man's perspective.


If you'd like to learn more about coaching with me, visit https://www.shanaschuttecoaching.com It would be my honor to talk with you. 

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4 Perspectives That Will Keep You Stuck in Your Relational Past

 

If you want to move past the pain of your relational past and you want to find a great relationship, then this Single Over 30 episode is for you. In it, I share 4 perspectives that can keep you stuck in the muck of your past and prevent you from moving forward. I also share a little of my own story about how I got stuck in the regret of a lost relationship. 

I hope you are encouraged. To find out if you are a good candidate for one-on-one coaching, just click here. I hope to talk to you soon! 

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[Special Episode] Guest Interview: How She Beat Dating Anxiety and Met a Great Guy Online

 

In this special episode, I have a conversation with Annie, one of my coaching clients. She shares her journey of how she beat dating anxiety to meet a great, marriage-minded man online. She also shares about the dating strategy she implemented while we worked together. 

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How to Invite a Man to Take Your Relationship to the Next Level

 

On this Single Over 30 episode, I share an inspiring story from Annie, one of my one-on-one coaching clients. In this story, I reveal how Annie invited a man she was interested in to "take their relationship to the next level" -- and (best of all!) how his response revealed his level of intention and his interest. If you aren't sure how to invite a man to move your relationship forward then this episode is for you. Check it out! To learn how you can work with me for one-on-one coaching like Annie did, visit https://shanaschuttecoaching.com/

 

 

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How to Avoid Going Nowhere Relationships and Unproductive Dating Patterns

 
Are you tired of meeting men but then the relationship stalls, moves too quickly, guys ghost you, or you become disappointed because men aren't who you thought they were? If so, then today’s Single Over 30 episode is for you. In it, I’m going to help you avoid non-productive patterns so that you can find your Mister by explaining 5 important dating and relationship stages that you don’t want to skip over. 

I'm rooting for you! The dream you have to love--and be loved--is possible! 
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Should You Share Your Insecurities About Yourself with a Man?

 What should you do if you feel really insecure in a relationship and you feel that you aren't worthy of a particular man, or maybe even just men in general? In today's episode, I share some guidelines about how to verbalize--and not verbalize--your insecurities. I hope you are encouraged! You deserve to be loved and loved well. 
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